And the truth, delivered without performance, is the most powerful thing you can put on a stage.
Hilary speaks at treatment centers, recovery organizations, wellness retreats, corporate events, and conferences. Her talks are not scripted performances. They are honest, structured conversations about what it actually takes to change your life when the life you've been living looks fine from the outside.
She speaks from lived experience, clinical awareness, and the kind of authority that only comes from having done the work herself. Audiences don't just listen. They feel seen.
On the kind of unraveling that doesn't look like one from the outside — and what it costs to keep pretending it isn't happening.
A candid, clinical, and deeply personal look at what recovery actually requires — and why the standard narratives fail the women who need them most.
On the relationship between shame and secrecy, and the specific kind of courage it takes for a woman to stop hiding.
On why women heal differently — and what it actually looks like to build the kind of community that makes that healing possible.
Workshop sessions